By Pamela D. Wilson, The Care Navigator, CSA, MS, BS/BA, CG

Many family members only see their parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles or other loved ones during the holidays due to distance, time and many other factors. It is often after this that I hear "mom and dad seem to be really going downhill". The holidays are a good time to visit family and to monitor ongoing ability to do everyday tasks.

Have you noticed a decline in physical ability or mobility? What is the level of physical stamina? Do parents seem to tire easily, have difficulty walking on flat surfaces or up and down steps? Have they lost or gained weight? How is their appetite? How is their general mood? Do they have a good social network on which they rely? Is the home being maintained? How are their driving skills? Are bills being paid on time and correctly? Have they kept up on medical and other health related appointments? Are they able to sort through mail and throw away unnecessary items? Are pets being cared for?

Sometimes noticing the little things after we've been away from a family member gives hints about a possible need for assistance. This is an area where The Care Navigator can assist. At an initial meeting, we identify sources of concern and discuss options to help maintain or improve the family member's day to day needs and living environment. An in depth plan is then developed after a discussion of the family member's long term wishes.

The right type of assistance is often able to prevent further declines that might be seen in a family member. Sometimes the assistance needed is minimal, sometimes significant. By discussing options, you as a family member can leave with a sense of comfort and peace of mind that the next time you visit, your family member will not be continuing to "go downhill". Give the gift of concern and caring to your family member this holiday season by noticing the little things.

Copyright 2011 Pamela D. Wilson, All Rights Reserved.

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